Author: DARIA - New York

Why High Waisted Jeans Are Here To Stay

Posted on by DARIA - New York in Fashion

It should be noted that some clothing brands are trying to reintroduce low rise jeans, but the internet has spoken and isn’t having any of that. Simply searching the words “low rise jeans” returns a unison of unanimous outcry against the trend.


Not dramatic at all, Srisha.

The reasons for the decry ranged from unflattering muffin tops to flat bottoms. One thing they did all agree on was that high waisted jeans are simply more flattering on the figure. The cinching at the waist helps to create an hourglass look, especially for those lacking in curves. In a generation where big butts and small waists are highly sought after, only high waisted jeans are able to accommodate the extra size while closing the gap at the waist.

But it isn’t simply about how it shapes the body. High waisted jeans also make looking fashionable easier. It’s almost effortless these days. A simple tee, high waisted jeans, and a flirty pout are just about all you need these days to look like you have a great sense of style. The look isn’t limited to jeans. High waisted anything is highly coveted with no end in sight.

The resurgence of the trend is what made brands like FashionNova skyrocket to its current success. FashionNova is now amongst the most sought after brands for jeans and often touted in reviews across the internet as having the best and most figure flattering high waisted jeans.

Gone are the days when the fashion industry held all the power and say in what society should wear. Thanks to social media, this same industry is now at the mercy of public opinion. A voice that was once muted and considered to “not know what’s good for you” is now roaring demands and getting what they want. And what they want are high waisted jeans. It’s a demanding generation that is here to stay. Should society ever want low rise jeans, they’ll let us know. Until then, no one’s holding their breath.

The Importance of Finding Your Purpose In Life

Posted on by DARIA - New York in self help

A wise man once said, “Every person created was created for a solution, to solve a problem. No matter how big or how small,”. When was the last time you were certain of your purpose in life? When was the last time you found yourself doing something that you knew was what you were created to do? Chances are most people haven’t been that certain of their purpose or true existence since childhood.

I firmly believe that everyone is born into this world with certain God-given gifts. Those gifts tend to manifest in childhood and either blossom into adulthood or become stifled and choked by the cares of the world. A majority of adults can look back into their past and recall a time when they were naturally good at one thing or another and couldn’t see themselves doing anything in life except that one thing. For me, it was writing. For you? It could have been singing, organizing or caring for the needy. Regardless of what it was, it was something to bring about a solution in the world.

What could you not stop yourself from doing regardless of how tired you were?

If we are fortunate enough, we’ll throw off the bondage of societal ideals and take up the torch for what we once had a passion for, come hell or high water. Rediscovering your true purpose in life is never difficult or a burden. It’s simply letting go and allowing it to take you with the current to your ultimate destination while never worrying about the highs and lows of the journey. It’s those volatile moments when we remain calm and steadfast that reaffirms that what we are doing and where we are is what is supposed to be. Because no matter how difficult the circumstances, we desire to continue.

Ask yourself this, when you were young, what were you most good at, naturally? What did you have a passion for and saw yourself doing in life regardless of whether you made income from it or not? What could you not stop yourself from doing regardless of how tired you were? Whatever answer you came up with, that was your purpose.

It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, but don’t allow it to distract you from your true purpose.

If you’re not fulfilling your purpose, then there’s a problem out there in the world that isn’t being solved, no matter how small. It may not be ending world hunger or curing cancer, but it’s important. It could be as little as making someone happy through your painting. That happiness could change the course of that person’s day and that particular day could have changed someone else’s life. Nothing is insignificant.

Now, while I don’t advocate for recklessness and implore you to suddenly quit your job, I will encourage you to start small. Perhaps run your fingers over the surface of that passion. You’ll find that not only is it still there just below the surface, but it will naturally come back to you no matter how long you’ve been away. It has always been there and will always be there, waiting to be remembered and embraced.

How Wearing A Quality Watch Can Change Your Life

Posted on by DARIA - New York in business, self help

It’s the overlooked things in life that our subconscious grabs onto and forces our decisions. It’s those small details that slip through the cracks of the conscious minds yet are having one of the greatest impacts on how we view and feel about ourselves and how others view and feel about us.

Growing up I was able to pick up on what the average person would overlook. It helped me succeed in areas where others failed. It gave me an edge over the competition in a sea of similar faces, races, and resumes. Yet, I had that sparkle that garnered unearned attention. I figured out a long time ago that there were three things that had to be of high quality, or at least look of high quality on my person wherever I ventured out. My watch, my handbag/wallet, and my shoes. While two of those are a necessity, one is considered an accessory and therefore “optional”.

However, a watch is anything but optional. It’s a true necessity for success in life. How so? For one, the most basic effect of wearing one is the sudden boost in confidence and self-importance. You look and seem like a person of importance, someone who has their life together, and someone who knows what they want and how to get it. Whether this is true or not, doesn’t matter. That feeling it gives you is enough to start moving you in that direction. Additionally, how people subconsciously view you as well tends to lean towards someone of higher standing. Of course, this all hinges upon the style of watch. You wouldn’t wear a Sports watch to a board meeting, would you? Just make sure it’s appropriate for the occasion.

“He once mentioned how people seem nicer to him all of a sudden.”

I have a friend who wore the same watch for every occasion. It was a chunky and clunky looking black sports watch. There were times when it was okay to wear and there were times when it was highly inappropriate, like at a wedding, to which he wore and with a very nice slim fitted black suit. Whenever I looked at him I could feel my insides screaming at the ridiculousness of such an obtrusive object hanging off the side of his arm next to a perfectly polished suit. He was later given a Daniel WellingtonĀ ClassicĀ BlackĀ SheffieldĀ as a birthday gift and his life hasn’t been the same since. As far as I can tell, he appears more confident wherever he goes. He once mentioned how people seem nicer to him all of a sudden. I could only assume that it ‘s because they assume he’s well off when they spot his timepiece. Sounds like a nice problem to have.

Due to the rise of technology (smartphones, in particular), watch wearing has been in decline. It’s not uncommon to hear the excuse, “A watch for what? I just use my phone”. But, I have yet to meet a successful person who doesn’t wear one. It matters. It matters in the way it gives us the confidence to take on the world. It matters in the way people are more accommodating to you because of their perception of you. These seemingly small experiences make it easier for you to pass barriers of entry. Where one person may be denied access, the probability of you being accepted increases.

It should be noted that all successful people wear watches all the time. You will never catch Jeff Bezos (richest man on Earth) with a naked wrist.

Click any of the watches above for more detail. Just remember, a classic looking watch can go a long way.

HOW USING STICKY NOTES CAN LEAD TO SUCCESS

Posted on by DARIA - New York in Uncategorized

It sounds a bit silly that something so small and seemingly trivial can be the key to your success and happiness, but it’s true. Sticky notes can possibly hold the key to whether you pass an exam, succeed at creating a successful blog or even losing weight.

Sticky notes are small sheets of paper that come in various colors and hues from neons to pastels. We use sticky notes to remember things, send personal notes, and to remind ourselves of something that needs to be completed. These are usually small tasks. The lightweight gems are then placed on surfaces that allow us to view them frequently so that we are always reminded of one thing or another. Because we are now visually alerted by their constant presence, the need to accomplish whatever task is written thereon grows stronger. Thus reducing procrastination and actually getting things done.

Productivity level rises when you use sticky notes.

If it’s all about being alerted to complete tasks, why not use a phone app and set alerts?

Writing tasks on a sheet of sticky notes and placing them in plain sight is supremely more effective than a phone notification for various reasons. It’s been noted by psychologists, psychiatrists, and other authoritative professions on human mental and social workings that there is an actual mental link that occurs when we put pen to paper our intentions that makes accomplishing those tasks far more successful. Studies have even been conducted in which they have found that individuals who used sticky notes were far more likely to accomplish those tasks and in a quicker manner than those who did not. Setting alerts do not have that same type of effect. You might even say that here is an example of technology hindering and not helping.

The second reason would be the fact that these sticky notes are in locations where you are constantly seeing them. Unlike an alert where we see once and shut off, sticky notes are always reminding us of their presence and therefore the uncompleted task. It’s that constant reminder that sticky notes have that a phone alert does not have that keeps us motivated.

You will find that accomplishing theses written tasks and doing away with that sticky note will leave you with an immense sense of accomplishment, no matter how little the task was. These little steps eventually lead to a long journey and before you realize it, you’ve hit a milestone. It will sometimes feel like magic. Simply writing things onto a sticky note will begin to give you the confidence that it is guaranteed to come to pass. After more and more tasks are accomplished, you will find yourself eager to do more, accomplish more, reach higher, and dream bigger.

A great thing about them is that they aren’t limited to success in business. You could be seeking success in a certain relationship, your health, or mental state. You can use them as a reminder to eat certain things and stay away from others, remind yourself to drink more water, write personal notes to those you love (or don’t care much for), or write positive things about yourself and place them on a mirror to boost your confidence. The ideas are nearly endless.

Productivity level rises when you use sticky notes as reminders. Successful people understand the power of writing down goals and do it frequently. Sometimes all we need are those little nudges from sincerely yours.

Click the post-it images above to get started on the road to success!